If you call yourself a
"Christian" couple and there is no Holy righteousness and jealousy
over the fact that your spouse is good friends with the opposite sex then
either God didn't put you together or you are ignorant of the scriptures.
NO ONE, for any reason, should come
between a man and wife. PERIOD! No ministry, no supposed prophesy, no work done
in the church, no friendship with the opposite sex, no other church, not even
your pets should come between you, not if you’re really walking in alignment
with the scriptures.
That
means that you don’t give someone of the opposite sex a ride if your spouse is
not with you. You’re not hanging out not eh phone with someone of the opposite sex.
You don’t sit with someone of the opposite sex unless it’s a family member. Nothing
and no one should be between you because fi they are then why are you even
together?
Perhaps
God didn’t put you together and you got saved afterwards and you want God to
bless your marriage and that’s good but if that’s the case then the two of you
need to get together and cut off some old communications and cut that thing
off.
Here
is a word study on what “let no man put asunder” really means. You will notice
that they mean the same thing in both scriptures because it is by two or more
witnesses that something is established so I pray this blesses you.
P.S. - If you are NOT a Christian couple then this does not apply to you.
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Mark 10:9
What therefore God hath
joined together, let not man put asunder.
What G3739
therefore G3767
God G2316
hath joined together, G4801
I. to fasten to one yoke,
yoke together
II. to join together unite
A.
of the marriage tie
let G5563
I. to separate, divide, part,
put asunder, to separate one's self from, to depart
A.
to leave a husband or wife
1. of divorce
B.
to depart, go away
not G3361
– no, not lest
man G444
I. a human being, whether
male or female
A.
generically, to include all human individuals
B.
to distinguish man from beings of a different order
1. of animals and plants
2. of from God and Christ
3. of the angels
C.
with the added notion of weakness, by which man is led into a mistake or
prompted to sin
D.
with the adjunct notion of contempt or disdainful pity
E.
with reference to two fold nature of man, body and soul
F.
with reference to the two fold nature of man, the corrupt and the truly
Christian man, conformed to the nature of God
G.
with reference to sex, a male
II. indefinitely, someone, a
man, one
III. in the plural, people
IV. joined with other words,
merchantman
put asunder. G5563
I. to separate, divide, part,
put asunder, to separate one's self from, to depart
A.
to leave a husband or wife
1. of divorce
B.
to depart, go away
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Matthew 19:6
Wherefore they are no more
twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put
asunder.
What G3739
therefore G3767
God G2316
hath joined together, G4801
I. to fasten to one yoke,
yoke together
II. to join together unite
A.
of the marriage tie
let G5563
I. to separate, divide, part,
put asunder, to separate one's self from, to depart
A.
to leave a husband or wife
1. of divorce
B.
to depart, go away
not G3361
– no, not lest
man G444
I. a human being, whether
male or female
A.
generically, to include all human individuals
B.
to distinguish man from beings of a different order
1. of animals and plants
2. of from God and Christ
3. of the angels
C.
with the added notion of weakness, by which man is led into a mistake or
prompted to sin
D.
with the adjunct notion of contempt or disdainful pity
E.
with reference to two fold nature of man, body and soul
F. with
reference to the two fold nature of man, the corrupt and the truly Christian
man, conformed to the nature of God
G.
with reference to sex, a male
II. indefinitely, someone, a
man, one
III. in the plural, people
IV. joined with other words,
merchantman
put asunder. G5563
I. to separate, divide, part,
put asunder, to separate one's self from, to depart
A.
to leave a husband or wife
1. of divorce
B.
to depart, go away